What if my child is crying?

Crying is a natural, normal response to new, unfamiliar or uncomfortable surroundings. Swimming, pools, water and lessons can all inspire a fear or crying response in people. Younger children who are going through life's experiences for the first time are particularly susceptible.

There are other reasons that a child might cry before or during swim lessons. Among them is control. If tears elicit a response the children desire, they will continue to cry. For instance, if they get affection from parents or get to go home, children will interpret this as a reward for crying.

Some children cry during swim lessons for reasons that have nothing whatsoever to do with their lessons. Did your child miss a nap today? Was somebody mean on the playground at school? Could your child be coming down with a cold?

A certain amount of fear and precaution is appropriate. We want children to be afraid of the consequences of failing to following instructions, like staying on their turtles between turns. They need to know that it is never okay to swim alone. Respect for rules, dangers and authority figures all play into their swim lessons.

If your child is genuinely afraid and crying, do not be embarrassed. With love, patience and time your child can overcome this fear. We want swim lessons to be fun. We feel great pride and a sense of success when our students stroke down the pool with beautiful technique. But more important than either of these is the responsibility we as teachers and parents feel to give children the tools they need to be safe in and around the water.

Tears will dry. Do not give up on your child's safety. If you have questions or concerns, please let us know.